Friends - Blog #1

                          

Hey guys Blue_Power1 here.

In the past year, even until today, I've been noticing a trend that needs to be addressed.

It all started on YouTube, when TeamCrafted announced it's launch and already there is a lot of hate with rumors on how Setosorcerer, CavemanFilms, and KermitPlaysMC were kicked out/left of TeamCrafted.

Binof Trash falls into depression, but is now doing fine.

Kuledud3 post a video about friends.

Skydoesminecraft, Deadlox, Huskymudkipz, and BlueMonkey leave TeamCrafted.

On the FanFiction side, a user by the name of coldstone1415, had lost a couple irl friends because of what she does.

If you hadn't noticed it, I'm spelling it out right now, people are losing friends and the meaning of friendship is being questioned.

Now I realize that most of the events have passed, but people are still wounded and I DO NOT want this matter go UNNOTICED. Especially now, as many fans are starting to question the legitimacy of the many YouTubers, such as BajanCanadian to name one, when it comes to friends.

First, if at any point I start to sound like I don't know what I am talking about, it's because I never experienced what you experienced. I'm one of those people who prefer to stick to the sidelines. It may sounds lonely, but I do have friends, and I've yet to figure out how to fit in, but I'm Tom in the picture. However, my imagination is as powerful as ever and my ability of being concerned about one's health is equal, more or less, to a mother's, so if you ever doubt, I always care about everyone who's feeling down.

         

Now often times, money, power, and even other people, throw obstacles in any path and endangers any trust. Most people, nowadays, give up. They don't try to fix it because, they don't want to try or they feel like it's too late.

It's never too late. If you were a true friend, you would stay by their side, despite how much they hurt you, despite how much they change. Fake friends are the ones who are entirely different person when they get want or in the privacy of their homes where they unleash their true colors. If your not careful, that fake friend will be with you for years and when they leave you, they leave this huge wound that won't heal until you let it heal.

A true friend is someone that stay with you, despite the mistakes you make, despite the influences from other people. They stay with throughout both the good times and bad, through both the calm and the storm, they keep trying no matter what happens, and they never give up on you.

Only you have the power to change how life will be for you.

The world is not a wish-granting factory, and hardships do bring out both the worst and the best in people, but that is the reality of life, an ugly truth we often forget. Life will only be sweet if you let it be. Even if your friends leave you, there is still family that loves you no matter what. You can always find new true friends and try to make last past your life time. Crying about old friends will not change anything. You have to let yourself heal, and that's the only way to let time heal you. Wounds heals, scars fade, but that's only if you give nature the tools to do so.

Your actions and your thoughts make it a battlefield in a war where no one wins, and when people hurt you, you need to say something.

If you need to talk to someone, talk to someone who is wise and very experienced, or talk to someone who will always try and ease your burden. Life will only get better, if you let it get better.

Don't give up on life, there is so much more to see, there is so much more for you to do, and your life isn't free. We all eventually die and become dust, you see.

In the end, your actions, your experiences, and the life you lead, will be legacy left behind. In a world that constantly changes, you want your life to mean something.

Sometimes, you can be your worst enemy, and your the one that destroys everything. We all need to learn to swallow our pride, as that will spell our own destruction.

The only way you can avoid getting hurt is determine the true friends from the fake ones, which is almost impossible, because the wrong choice will hurt everyone. We all need to learn how to deal with and love both our friends and enemies. Learn how to pray for everyone around us, and learn to bury the past and keep our troubles far. We all can be monsters, villains, bad guys, innocents, bystanders, bullies, heroes, good guys, or friends. But we all need to learn how to forgive, because revenge is way to easy, and it's braver to forgive.

In the end, friends will only stay with you if you let them. You can be the cause of your own destruction. Time only heals, if you let it.

Unfortunately, that's it for me. There are something things I want to say, but it's so hard to put it into words. I hope you do see sense in these words and learn who your true friends are. Please share this if you can and send it around.

Till the next post, Blue_Power1.